Hook-ups, break-ups & it’s complicated

Life is simple but feelings and emotions complicate it.
People think that simple life is dull but after hook-ups, break-ups and when it gets complicated what we wish at the end is, that why can’t I have a simple life.
Anyone can have a simple life but hook-ups, break-ups complicate it. Every human wants to have something extra in their life because we don’t want to get satisfied with our needs but we want to fulfill all our greed.
First people get hooked and when they try to know each other they came to know that they both are not compatible and can’t have future. Then why did you first get hooked when you are not sure about each other. Youth want everything happens fast in their life.
If someone emotionally supported you in a bad phase of your life, you think that person knows you and you become emotionally attached to that person. A person who brings you out from that situation become close to you and most of the person find that person ideal for themselves.
But care showed by that person is not enough to get hooked. One needs to know each other well.
When someone doesn’t show the same care and affection we say that person doesn’t love me and we both are not compatible with each other and then we start complicating things.
But is it one person mistake or it’s a mistake done by both?
One person came into the relationship with other because of one’s feelings. As the individual doesn’t want to hurt the feeling of another individual and he/she don’t want to lose the individual, so an individual does the thing which other individual want.
But in the end both get hurt when things get over between them. Sometimes an individual came close to another individual so much that they can neither call them best friend nor they can call them bf/gf.
At that point, the relationship gets complicated not when two individuals fight with each other in a relationship and once complications occurred and things didn’t work out between the two and they both separated their ways. In that situation when two parted their ways, that is the worst situation when two get separated. At that time after the breakup, both of them don’t like to see each other face and that kind of breakups are most dangerous.
When two loved each other they never said they will hate each other one day but it eventually happens after a breakup.
So if you really loved each other then things should end at a healthy note and when you can get in a relationship on one’s liking then why complicate things at time of breakup.
So don’t hate anyone in your life and end things on a healthy note because you also started things on a healthy note.