If you are doing what you like and got failed than you are a failure in everyone’s eyes but if you are fulfilling your parent’s ambition and get failed than it’s an experience for you and you can start from fresh.
This is what happens when someone listens to his heart but if one is following the dreams he/she wants to live and got failed than the individual is marked as a failure or loser to do any work and the individual can’t start from fresh.
Parents are not the problem much, more problematic is a society in which we live and in which our parents live because of the rules and regulations made by those failures who can’t control their life so try to control other’s life.
Society is like a dog whose tail will always remain bent no matter how many times you try to straighten it.
So what you can do best is just try to improve yourself day by day because little improvement will make you more effective.
Ambition is seen by you so you have to walk alone towards it to achieve it.
People criticize you not because you are walking towards your dream but because they can’t gather the courage to move towards their dream and when you do so they get jealous that how can you gather so much courage to walk alone for your dream.
Instead of appreciating and sharing their experience or conditions which have stopped them to move towards their dream they try to pull you down too.
Sometimes you get failed not because you didn’t try your best but because time might not be the right for you or something better will be waiting for you. This is the only time which can make or break a person because if someone got failed in the thing of their interest that might motivate or demotivate an individual at the same time.
Failure may teach an individual to learn from the mistakes and perform better or may break an individual so badly that the individual will never try to fulfill their dreams.
When someone gets failed it’s not their failure alone it’s the failure of the whole society because the individual will never get sad that why he/she tried and got failed, because they know that they might even not get succeed when they started for their dreams but they still want to try it in the hope of getting succeed.
That little hope pushes an individual so hard that the individual puts everything to get that hope became reality but when that doesn’t happen the shattered individual faces the ghost bigger than the shatter of the dreams i.e. society.
Society not only blames the individual who followed the dream but also all the people who supported the individual during the journey of being a failure in not getting dreams to reality. This behavior of society makes the individual weak because the individual knows how to fight with others as he/she has done the same when they started their journey of fulfilling their dreams but they can’t handle the blames put by society on the ones who gave their hand to the individual when no one is on their side.
So please stop being judgemental and let others live their life. No one is saying you to be there helping hand but at least don’t be the drowning hands on their path.
Helping someone requires feelings but not criticizing someone else requires self-control, so both are benefiting you.
Now it’s on you whether to become selfish and help yourself as well as others or become someone in the society who are selfless and soon going to become extent because at the end we all know the dog tail can’t be straightened so we have stopped trying. Similarly, people are knowing society can’t be changed so they are adjusting themselves and getting habitual to live in a society with a bent tail.
Life Sucks but it goes on 