Become mature out of nowhere

Childhood stage is the best stage because no one expects you to behave and everyone loves to see you doing mischievous things.
When you do mischievous activities and smile after doing that activity, everyone loves your expression at that time and calls you cute.
But when you become above 6 years parents don’t expect you to break utensils and breaking bulbs while playing bat ball in the verandah.
So how can you not say anything till 6 years of age and start pointing out suddenly to the child?
You have to make the child ready from the beginning and gave the child enough time to learn the new habits.
Similarly, when we get in 11th class parents expect us to become serious suddenly for our career and kept telling us that you are grown up now study hard for 11th and 12th and start thinking about the future. You will never tell the child till 10th to think about a career but when gets in 11th you expect the child to make the right decision for the career by opting right stream.
After passing 12th once you get in graduation no one will gonna say you a thing for those 3-4 years and it’s the best period of one’s life.
Don’t get too happy because after this next expectation is one of the biggest one from parents. Now you are going to do a job or opt for a post-grad program you should become adult and behave like a civilized person of the society and learn to take responsibilities. For 3-4 years of graduation, no one is going to say anything to you and suddenly in the final year, people will start looking at you like you are ready to get married tomorrow.
At the stage when you are struggling between how to manage responsibilities and getting used to behave maturely and handling situations like a grown up. This will be the only time when you are just learned and enjoying the new role of behaving maturely and suddenly your marriage talks start and in the very next moment you will be sitting in the groom’s chair.
This is the first time when you will enjoy the new role but for a short period and then you will soon realize that you been captured not in a new responsibility this time but in jail of responsibilities. The little childish nature left in you will be burdened and dead with the weight of responsibilities.
After this stage, the child in an individual is dead permanently and no one can revive the child in you. This sudden change makes you a responsible individual but after this, you will not be responsible for yourself ever again because you are now expected to be responsible for others and when you are responsible for others no one expects you to do a mistake and expect from you to be a perfectionist by the time.